Bob, I'm so sorry about your loosing your friend and inspiration. You can continue on in his field to keep his spirit alive. No you don't have to own a suit to attend the service. Best wishes. Jane > > A bit late to ask, by now, as it was when I found out half the faculty > in the department were gone Wednesday to John Pair's funeral down in Wichita. > A little late as well to ask about working with him on several uncommon woody > plants that seem to have merit for the Southern Plains. > John who? Oh, well, he had his share of fame: high-end awards from AHS, > ASHS (Am. Soc. for Horticultural Science) and no doubt others. You can't > have failed to see his name while delving into Dirr's Manual of Woody > Landscape Plants. > > I only met him twice. Once years ago at a Wichita Hort Research Center > field day, plus one Saturday morning a few years later when I wandered in > because the gate was open, and he was out in the plantings taking notes. > Those occasions stick in my mind in part because they were among the few > long conversations with an intelligent person I _had_ back in those days - > and maybe because he was the only person who ever actually encouraged me to > go into horticulture. > > "Inspiration" is no doubt too strong a term - I probably take that little > better than I do advice - but... aw, hell, I don't suppose in the last few > years of his life he would've liked to know he'd had some part in bringing > someone to professional horticulture who could envision worse careers than > taking much the same kind of work he did into the next century.