Ranchmama, your message about Jim is most welcome, and thank you! I've dropped 20 pounds from total lack of sleep and food. Jim couldn't bear to be left alone in his almost paralized condition, and I could not deny that look of terror in his eyes, so I stayed glued to his side for weeks, and would do it again if needed. It took both an Aide and myself to keep him tied down in the nightime because he was hallucinating wildly from the opioids they gave him for pain -- morphine, Percodan, Oxycodone (yes, Margaret!), Lortab, then down to codeine. Even the sleeping pill Ambian, set him wild - the sugeon then ordered Benedryl, the antihystamine, for sleeping, but the Rehab Center physician said 'Nonsense! Not if he has no rash!" and struck it off. I have been fighting the staff with tooth and nail every single minute. I've managed to come home to a real bed and some sleep for a week now. Jimmie has round-the-clock aides with which he has become familiar, so I feel able to leave. The doctors didn't know that there was a broken bone in the neck for 5 weeks - they had taken Cat scans, which did not show it up. It was my son-in-law, Gino's (radiologist) insistance that got me to arrange for an MRI which showed the problem clearly. The surgeon operated instantly, but too much extra damage had been done by the regular doctor's recommendation that he have physio-therapy. It almost cost him his life, believe it or not! The current state of inability to walk and also the uselessness of the left arm are all due to the compression of the nerves in the neck. In fact, he almost could not swallow any food before the operation, because the impact just about closed off his esophagus. The operation relieved that pressure, happily. He now has a many-level fusion in his neck, and his future recovery will depend upon the nerves' abilities to decompress. The doctors and the family are all sitting on the edge of the couch, waiting and watching. Penny, NY . ________________________________________________________________ The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today!