Well, Lawyer Jim, I'm an advocate of restorative justice. Dear daughter has to find some way to make it right...preferably with her own hard earned money...and that might just be a shopping trip to search out a new bottle of chipotle/cheddar or some other appropriate replacement. Whether or not you accompany her on said trip is a personal choice but be warned that if you send her own shopping on her own she will probably return with many lovely things, for herself, and forget she had a mission to begin with LOL! When one that age is required to spend his/her own cash for something for someone else (that is not a gift of their own choosing etc.) it makes a fairly indelible impression on behavior. SandyO CH #1146 of the moderate persuasion and clinical social worker/school social worker in real life.