> > > On Thu, 2 Jul 1998 asidv@fbg.net wrote: > > > John Harman's worrying about feminism seems odd in an Australian, for > > in visiting Australia I was charmed by the comfortable > > attitude shown between men and women. I liked their use of the term > > "Mate" as an endearment; they seemed to have fun together > > and to respect the each other's worth. Mr Harman wrote: > No I don't barge in front of people, but I don't stand back to > allow a woman to proceed me like I would have done years ago either. It is > considered 'patronizing' don't you know. :) No. I didn't know that. I thought it was gentlemanly. Pat