Allen and Judy Merten <gardeners@globalgarden.com> wrote: > Hi Pat, > My Great Grandmother raised me for the first 8 yrs of my life. My Great > Grandfather died when I was about 5. I have old fashioned Southern Manners > because of that. I have attempted to open doors for several flamming femanists > who resented it and told me so in very clear terms that I was demeaning them and > implying that they couldn't make their way in the world without a mans help. It's unfortunate that all groups are usually defined in the eyes of others by the behavior of their lowest members -- blacks are defined in this country by gangbangers, native americans are defined by alcoholics and feminists are defined by rude women. Liz