Well, Bambi -- Jimmie and I just went thru all the places where we lived during WW-2, and we cannot pin down in which city I might have been all alone on Thanksgiving Day, which drove me to tears so that my landlady did carry up that plate of dinner for me.. You see, Thanksgiving was my grandparents' wedding anniversary, and was the one and only day in the year when the whole family came for dinner ... and I was a very lonely bride. In case there's a clue buried in here, I'll list them: Miami Beach, Fl (basic training) Lexington, Ky (Univ of Ky) Aberdeen, Md (Aberdeen Proving Ground) Rolla, Mo (Ft.Leonard Wood) St.Louis, Mo (Granite City Engineering Depot) Columbia, S.C. (Ft.Andrew Jackson) ......................................... Let's have a bar-b-q around here is just a generic name for let's throw some hamburgers and hot dogs on the gas grill in the back yard. Not for us, tho. We still make a fire, sometimes of wood, and other times of charcoal. And over the years we've rotisseried roast beef, shishkebob, steak, and chicken -- and two of our friends make a fantastic butterflied marinated whole leg of lamb. But NOBODY has company over for dinner anymore, since ALL the wives went out to work about 10 years ago. That means we're down to charcoaling one steak for two, or else Jim makes a quick teepee fire and throws a hamburger on it for his lunch. It used to be a lot of fun when we had a crowd and could be creative. Now everyone wants to go out for dinner together, and it just ain't the same. Do we call this progress...? Penny, NY _____________________________________________________________________ You don't need to buy Internet access to use free Internet e-mail. Get completely free e-mail from Juno at http://www.juno.com Or call Juno at (800) 654-JUNO [654-5866]