Male and female plants/flowers can be told apart by whether they fruit or not. The female ones wind up with fruit or berries. It is perhaps easiest to see these in squash plants. The male squash flower has a sraight stem and the female flower has what looks like a baby squash behind the blossom. You may have seen some recipes for stirfried or stuffed squash flowers. This is done with the male flowers--but not all the male flowers! (Or you won't get any squash :-) .) I know some people on this list have already found it, but I wanted to let the rest know that we have a list up and running at http://www.onelist.com for the 4x4 biointensive gardening project. It's called 4x4Garden. People are welcome to join the experiment or read the posts and ask questions. One of the earliest planters is already harvesting from hers. Sharon gordonse@one.net