Rosemary, I understand your frustration. But take 10 deep breaths and repeat to yourself: 1. you enjoyed the *process* of making your gardens, you learned a lot that you will bring to the process of making a garden at your new house. So ultimately it really doesn't matter what the next occupant of your current house does to the house. You had the pleasure of the garden. That's what matters. 2. all homeowners panic that they are never going to be able to sell their houses. Baring a black Tuesday, I think it would be hard for a house NOT to sell in today's market. 3. you will make it a LOT easier (and saner) for yourself if you make yourself scarce when a realtor comes by with a sales prospect. It's masochistic for the seller to ever see a prospect until earnest money contracts are written at the earliest! 4. Follow the excellent advice posted here to crank up the bread machine a hour or so before a realtor shows up with a prospect in tow. The aroma of baking bread really, really gets to people on a subliminal level and has helped sell houses for many years. 5. "This too shall pass." Catharine