That's how we come to know one another and to form friendships, Dan. When the OT thread focuses on child-rearing, I'm not interested. Have no children, didn't want any. I do a lot of deleting. It's also how some of us (me) learn that "a second plane has just crashed into the WTC" or that an earthquake just occurred, shaking a subscriber on the California desert. Margaret L >No offense intended to Barb or anyone else. It's a great list. Personally, I >lurk a lot and prefer less OT talk. For those who don't, fine. To each his >own. > >Dan Dixon